接受所有的平凡欲速则不达

　　人世间的一切不平凡，都要回归平凡，都要用平凡生活来衡量其价值。伟大、精彩、成功都不算什么，只有把平凡生活真正过好，人生才是圆满。

　　Everything in the world is extraordinary, and finally it will return to ordinary, and its value will be measured by ordinary life. Greatness, splendor and success are nothing. Only by living an ordinary life well can life be complete.

　　真正的成熟，是接受人生的平凡，并去享受它。

　　True maturity is to accept the ordinary life and enjoy it.

　　梁晓声说：“中国人心里都暗怕着一种平凡的东西，那是平凡之人的人生本身。”

　　Liang Xiaosheng said, "Chinese people are secretly afraid of an ordinary thing, which is the life itself of ordinary people."

　　高光的梦想与素颜现实之间的落差，是人痛苦的根源。

　　The gap between the dream of high light and the reality of plain face is the root of people's pain.

　　现实是：在这个世界上有90%的人是普通人，9%的人有小成，1%的人能成为被人瞩目的人。

　　Reality: In this world, 90% of people are ordinary people, 9% have small achievements, and 1% can be noticed.

　　做主角的是极少数人，多的是像你我这样平凡的观众。

　　The leading role is played by a very small number of people, mostly ordinary audiences like you and me.

　　周国平说：“人生有三次成长，一是发现自己不再是世界中心的时候，二是发现再怎么努力也无能为力的时候，三是接受自己的平凡并去享受平凡的时候。”

　　Zhou Guoping said, "There are three times in life. One is when you discover that you are no longer the center of the world, the other is when you can't do anything no matter how hard you try, and the third is when you accept your own ordinary and enjoy it."

　　也有人说，人成熟的标志是接受三个平凡：父母是平凡的，自己是平凡的，孩子是平凡的。

　　It is also said that the sign of a person's maturity is to accept three ordinary things: parents are ordinary, oneself are ordinary and children are ordinary.

　　能接受平凡，本身就是一件不平凡的事。

　　Being able to accept the ordinary is an extraordinary thing in itself.

　　杜甫在《闻官军收河南河北》一诗中为我们描述了他的晚年生活：“老妻画纸为棋局，稚子敲针作钓钩。但有故人供禄米，微躯此外更何求。”

　　Du Fu described his later life for us in his poem both sides of the yellow river recaptured by the imperial army: "An old wife draws paper for a chess game, and a young son knocks a needle for a hook." But there are old friends who supply Lumi, and what more can a tiny body ask for? "

　　年老的妻子安安静静地在纸上画了棋盘，幼小的孩子在石头上把缝衣针敲弯做成了钓钩。要有老朋友给予一些钱米，我还能有什么奢求呢?

　　The old wife quietly drew a chessboard on the paper, and the young child bent the sewing needle on the stone to make a fishing hook. What can I ask for if my old friends give me some money and rice?

　　很难想象，千古留名的“诗圣”，他的生活没有万千气象，而是如此的平常不过。

　　It's hard to imagine that the "Poet Sage", who has a long-standing reputation, has a very ordinary life, rather than a myriad of events.

　　原来，大部分的人都过着相似的人生，上学工作结婚育娃，然后在柴米油盐中老去。

　　It turns out that most people live a similar life, go to school, work, get married and have children, and then grow old in daily necessities.

　　高明的人，用平凡的生活成全自己，让最平凡的事物逐一归位，让无序的生活变得有序。

　　Clever people, with ordinary life to fulfill themselves, let the most ordinary things return one by one, so that disorderly life becomes orderly.

　　接纳平凡，把日子活得热气腾腾，生活因此不平凡。

　　Accept the ordinary, make your life hot, and your life is extraordinary.

　　一个人可以平凡，但不能平庸。

　　A person can be ordinary, but not mediocre.

　　有人错把平庸当成了平凡，其实这是两个概念。

　　Some people mistake mediocrity for mediocrity. In fact, these are two concepts.

　　平庸是没有理想与追求、自暴自弃、无所作为;平凡是对自己有清醒的认知，却不会放弃自己努力，是不以结果论成败的坦然。

　　Mediocrity is lack of ideals and pursuits, self-abandonment and inaction; Ordinary people have a clear understanding of themselves, but they don't give up their efforts, and they are calm about success or failure based on outcome theory.

　　平凡不可怕，没经历过奋斗便甘于平庸才可怕。

　　Ordinary is not terrible, but it is terrible to be willing to be mediocre without experiencing struggle.

　　陈道明颇为严厉地回应道：“世界上没这么多主角，大部分人一辈子可能要甘于寂寞，甘于平凡。但是，不要打击他们的努力。”

　　Chen Daoming responded sternly: "There are not so many protagonists in the world. Most people may be willing to be lonely and ordinary all their lives. However, don't discourage their efforts. "

　　甘于平凡，却不甘于平庸，看清生活的真相，依然热爱生活的人，才是真正的英雄。

　　Those who are willing to be ordinary, but unwilling to be mediocre, see the truth of life clearly, and still love life are the real heroes.

　　正如朴树的歌里所唱：“我曾经跨过山和大海，也穿过人山人海，我曾经拥有着的一切，转眼都飘散如烟，我曾经失落失望失掉所有方向，直到看见平凡才是的答案。”

　　As Pu Shu's song goes, "I have crossed mountains and seas, and I have also crossed a sea of people. Everything I once owned is gone in smoke in a blink of an eye. I have lost all directions in disappointment, and the only answer is to see the ordinary."

　　有句话说得好：“无论多么不平凡的生命，最终都要归于平凡的柴米油盐;无论生命中有多少波澜壮阔，我们最迷恋的，始终是包裹在烟火人世里，平凡琐碎的温暖和感动。”

　　There is a good saying: "No matter how extraordinary a life is, it will eventually be attributed to ordinary daily necessities;" No matter how magnificent there is in life, what we are most obsessed with is always the ordinary trivial warmth and touch wrapped in fireworks. "

　　真正的成熟，是接受人生的平凡，于纷繁的世间，洞明世事，知晓人情百态，却始终以赤子之心待之，只做简单真实的自己。

　　True maturity is to accept the ordinary life, understand the world in the complicated world, know all kinds of human feelings, but always treat them with a pure heart, and only be simple and true.